The kaswida “Tumpe Hakiba Kungwi” by Ukhty Adila provides marriage advice to new brides on managing household responsibilities and maintaining a harmonious relationship with their husbands. Here, “kungwi,” the traditional advisor for the bride, is called upon to impart wisdom and practical guidance to help the bride navigate her new role.
The lyrics encourage the “Mama harusi,” or bride, to approach her duties with maturity, learning key skills that help her manage her household with ease. With lines like “tumpe hakiba kungwi” and “bahasha ya maneno ya mafunzo mwali kumfunza,” the song emphasizes the importance of passing down essential teachings and offering meaningful advice. Kungwi is entrusted with specific teachings, like how to prepare and keep the home, symbolized by “umfundishe kutandika pindi akiwemo bwana,” reminding the bride of the significance of creating a comfortable environment.
Through relatable imagery, the kaswida uses phrases such as “kamtolee mifano” to encourage the advisor to give practical examples, helping the bride grasp the lessons fully. The message highlights respect, organization, and attentiveness in marriage, guiding the bride to be prepared and considerate.
